As I continue on my dating adventures, the things that some times come out of my mouth surprise even me... Apparently when I passed 40, that little barrier in your brain that stops certain thoughts from actually being formed in to sounds coming out of your mouth, completely malfunctioned. My new motto is "say what you mean, and mean what you say." Not such a bad motto to live by. At least not until your date conversation turns in to "penis is not attractive."
How the hell did that happen? I am not sure how I managed to turn the conversation from "which features do you find most attractive in a woman" to "penis is not attractive", but I did. At least I added the physical features I do like in a man first, but I am sadly afraid the latter part of that conversation overshadowed any of those.
Not that I don't actually mean it. I didn't say I don't like it, or that I can't find a whole lot of pleasure in one, but not from looking at it. However, even I see that it may not be the best conversation piece on a date....poor guy. I think I gave him such a penis complex, the chance of him actually ever letting me see it, is slim to none...and so we go on, living and learning. When to shut up seems to be the hardest lesson to ever learn though, but I'll get there. Probably not any time soon, but some time!
Just out of curiosity, why are they not attractive? One would think, if an object/member were able to provide sought after pleasure, then a person would have some type of attraction towards it ergo attached to it... find it somewhat attractive. Even something ugly attracts attention... meaning there is some attractiveness... lol
ReplyDeleteHere's my thing; a broad chest, muscular arms and legs, a six pack, a tight butt, a strong jaw - all very attractive to look at...penis, no, not so much. I find a man in briefs a whole lot more attractive than a naked man - so basically, the bulge is more attractive than the actual penis...lol Nobody has to agree with me, this is just what I think. But by comparison, is vagina really that attractive?
ReplyDeleteit's work or art, actually, so much power packed into such a tiny fruit :-)
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